Golden Rule
Purpose:
This is my personal soapbox; hence, the URL. Others may read or not, as they choose; all are welcome, none forced to stay (or, more specifically, to return). This site does not generate an income, advertise any product, or attempt to elicit sympathy; it is a virtual "litter box" in which to deposit bits of psychological diarrhea. Period.
Opinions expressed here are mine alone. I neither ask nor expect anyone to subscribe to them, only to respect the fact that they are mine, about a particular subject that happened to be on my mind at a given point in time. There is no requirement for agreement with (or even to like) what I say.
I am acutely aware that my skills of self-expression are rapidly deteriorating and that at times I say things that seem confusing (or conflicting, completely asinine, or downright mean, hurtful and hateful) as encountered by the world outside my head. The "why" of this is simple yet complex, really quite fascinating, and on progressively deepening levels ever more frustrating and disturbing. If in doubt about something I have (perhaps inadequately) said, do not hesitate to ask for clarification. I will not be offended and will gladly try my best to explain - so long as you ask and do not just presume. Afterward, we can go on to deciding whether or not you still think me an asshole.
I am neither rigid nor inflexible. I enjoy hearing differing points of view. I eagerly accept constructive criticism, feedback, and suggestions. I thrive on challenges encouraging me to think before signing on the dotted line. While my personal beliefs system is "black and white," I understand that Life brings to each of us various shades of gray; I am driven to see them all. My goal is not to "convert" anyone whose views oppose my own (although I admit to a bit of personal satisfaction when they have heard me out, acknowledged my viewpoint, and given credence to what I have said), yet neither is it to submit to intolerance, browbeating, or regurgitation of nonsensical.... nonsense.... or obfuscation - and I will not be sampling the Kool-Aid, thank you very much.
Sometimes my thoughts on a subject are not those of tomorrow.... or the next day. What works for me.... may not work for you - and the other way around. I cannot walk a mile in your shoes, and you need not attempt to walk in mine. We may not see eye to eye, but that is no reason to stop listening to each other. So:
~~Listen beyond merely hearing, and sometimes my nonsense makes sense.
~~Visualize beyond merely seeing, and other dimensions will become apparent.
~~Contemplate wisdom beyond merely thinking, and the truth will reveal itself.
Terms of Service/Copyright Information:
Unless indicated/attributed otherwise, these writings are my own original work and subject to copyright protection. User-generated content (i.e., comments) will be moderated; remember, this is not a Free Speech Zone. Further, I reserve license related to ALL content posted herein and, more specifically, have no duty to modify/withdraw posts or comments but may do so should I choose (in other words, by posting comments, etc., on this site, you are expressly agreeing to share license to said material, that I may moderate, edit, delete, or leave as is, at my discretion).
Notice/Disclaimer:
Despite pretty packaging and "eloquent rhetoric," a foul mouth lies beneath it all. If you find this offensive, if you cannot ignore it or do not like it, or if I just piss you off in general, remember: That is why God invented the "BACK" button on your browser....
Do not be afraid to use it.
